This Obon, a little eggplant horse became a bridge between Japan and my life in Australia. Remembering my beloved Milky Boy led me to reflect on culture, gratitude, connection and the quiet places where IKIGAI can be found.

A reflective essay on Ikigai, menopause, and midlife inspired by the writings of Dr Mieko Kamiya. Exploring identity, emotional transition, softer living, and the quiet search for meaning during life’s changing seasons.